Oct 17, 2024
- Lifestyle Design, Mindset, Motivation
If I may offer something that helped me:
The diagonal of your life:
Stop trying to wrestle your life into submission.
Focussing on the end results and struggling harder will just result in burnout.
Set a general direction, create habits which steer you in that path,
but let go of controlling the exact trajectory.
Here’s a few tools which helped me:
I feel like I don’t have the qualifications. Like I don’t really know what I’m doing. I’ve never worked for a company doing any of the things I offer. I see plenty of people who are successful with less qualification than me, but I also see a lot more. I guess I’m comparing myself. – Alana, webflow designer
As someone who’s burned two degrees, qualifications are overrated!
Best to learn is by doing.
Sometimes that means selling stuff you are not sure how to do yet.
But you’ll figure it out!
It feels uncomfortable and scary, which is never nice but that uncomfortable feeling just means your in the growth zone.
It’s easy to compare yourself to others If your on social media you can’t avoid it.
But remember everyone has their own pace,
And most of the stuff you see on social is the cherry picked highlights anyway.
It’s always hard then you get a little win which gives you the energy to keep at it.
The only way to stay consistenyly motivated is by focussing on the doing instead of the outcome. I do this through my consistency review systems. I review on macro and micro scale daily, weekly, monthly and quarterly. Here’s a link to my process and consistency system for Solopreneurs.
No, a lifestyle business is a business model for entrepreneurs who value their freedom above all else.
It differs from traditional businesses models, such as the startup model, in several key ways:
Most people start their own business for freedom, get overwhelmed, put all their time into it, then fit life around whatever time remains.
This is because common culture promotes the startup model, where endless growth is prioritized at all costs.
The goal is to pump revenue as high as possible, with little regard for the people IN the business, and revenue is one of the only measures of success.
Success = your revenue.
For the entrepreneur, it’s a recipe for burnout.
If your goal is freedom, Then you need to build a lifestyle business.
A LIFESTYLE business is a business designed to prioritize profit and freedom first.
A lifestyle business is intentionally small, lean, and leveraged with little overheads.
A lifestyle business aims to put your life first and integrate your business into your lifestyle.
If you want lifestyle business, don’t use the wrong measuring stick.
A lot of people try to measure success by revenue.
In a lifestyle business, revenue means nothing.
Tell me about the profit.
That also means nothing, tell me your profit ÷ time.
Now we’re getting somewhere…
Now tell me what you do with your spare time.
Now you have a more accurate picture of your “success” in a lifestyle business.
A lifestyle business is the ideal model for a solopreneur who wants to have an intentionally designed lifestyle outside their business. 🙂
Working by itself has its advantages. But teamwork is something that suffers.
Any design is usually improved by input from multiple different perspectives, which can be hard to find when you work for yourself, by yourself.
Peer feedback is really important because it’s hard to see the trees when you’re thick in the forest.
You start second-guessing your own design choices, or worse,
become blind to your own mistakes and become stagnant.
No-one is perfect.
You’ll make mistakes.
You’ll miss things, and even the best output is still based just on your own perception of reality.
Designers will start with the exact same brief, and come up with a completley different design.
Criticism is the way we get better.
So first, ditch the defensiveness and embrace feedback and criticism.
You don’t need to action every bit of feedback you receive, it’s your design, and you have a thought process that (hopefully) makes sense.
But every piece of feedback has the potential to either improve the design,
or pen new avenues of thought.
Here’s a few techniques I use to combat this as a solopreneur.
If you’ve hit a wall, leave it, sleep on it.
Your brain will continue to work on things at rest,
You’ll come back to it with fresh eyes and all sorts of new ideas.
After I finish a project, I always go backwards.
I reread the brief to make sure I’m on point.
It’s easy to wander throughout the creative process until your way off brief.
I self-critique my own work from a super critical point of view.
Do a bit of roleplaying, I put myself in different shoes…
I like to put myself into a specific frame of mind, and approach the design in a few different roles.
Ask myself some hard questions as…
Usually, this brings my work up a notch, preaddresses issues and skips a few rounds of revisions or bouncebacks.
Find someone else in your niche, and swap about, ask and offer feedback when needed.
You will people in the same situation and stage as you on social media or other community groups.
I guarantee they’ll have the same problem and would welcome the chance to trade ideas and inspiration.
This a big solopreneur move which will help you stop seeing your peers as competitors, and start seeing them as partners or colleagues.
It doesn’t just stop at design.
I have a selection of peers I like to trade ideas with once a month.
It takes 5 minutes per person
I like to find…
Having an echo chamber like this leads to so many breakthroughs, and is beneficial for all parties.
Here’s some questions you can ask:
Just because you’re a solopreneur, it doesn’t mean you have to work alone.
You can have partners without having business partners.
You have access to an unlimited number of designers at your fingertips on social media, and in online communities.
Constructive criticism is something to embrace, not fear.
Your contact details will be private. The answer to your Question will be public so other solopreneurs learn from it.